IS IT OK TO…..

no need to get your knickers in a twist. experts reveal how to cringe-proof your dates and avoid relationship faux pas...

…WEAR SPANX ON A DATE?
“Yes”: the most important thing about a date is feel good about yourself, so if a body-control underwear gives you confidence, go for it!

…SCHEDULE SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP?
“Definitely!”: this is absolutely ok say Dr Janet Hall (sex-life solutions). It is easy to become lazy about sex in the long term because we’re too tired or busy. But its vital for a healthy relationship, so there’s nothing wrong with forward planning. It could be even interesting if you put a Theme each time… cant wait!!! =D

…TAKE AN OVERNIGHT BAG WHEN HE HASN’T ASKED YOU TO STAY?
“NO”: if you think you might stay, just pop a toothbrush and an extra tiny thong in your purse.

…PEE WITH THE DOOR OPEN WHEN YOURE IN A RELATIONSHIP?
“Yes”: it is ok, but don’t make a habit of it. Sometimes a little bit of innocent mystery can be a good thing.

…OFFER TO PAY ON A DATE, BUT BE MORTIFIED WHEN HE ACCEPTS?
“yes”: the person who requests the pleasure should pay for the pleasure (Dr.Bryant). “in the other words, if he asked you out, he should be picking up the tab. It’s polite to offer to contribute, but its fair enough to feel surprised when he accepts.”

…TELL HIM HE’S THE BEST LOVER EVER (even if its not true)?
“Hmm, Maybe”: “the male ego needs to be stroked,” says Dr Hall. It doesn’t matter what happened with other men before him – the key is to make him like he is the most wonderful man in the world. In return for your praise, he will think you are wonderful too, and you will benefit in and out of the bedroom. Thank God I don’t have to lie, my Man is the Best Lover EVVAAAARRRR!! =P

…TURN DOWN SEX TO PUNISH HIM?
“Never!!!!!!”: it is a sure-fire way to make him feel rejected and frustrated. Don’t do it!

…LOVE HIM TO BITS BUT FEEL PLEASED TO GET A NIGHT ON YOUR OWN?
“yes”: wanting time for yourself doesn’t mean you’re not compatible. Just be true to your self and your partner, are you spending your time your self… with friends or with someone you might end up having an affair with... if it is the last one, then it’s a NO for you.

…FAKE AN ORGASM TO MAKE HIM FEEL GOOD?
“No”: be brave and talk about what you like in bed. Being honest will mean you can both enjoy yourselves.